Use REFLECTIVE LISTENING techniques to seek shared
understanding. Your patients will tell you what has
worked and what hasn't.
Highlight discrepancies between the patient's
present behavior and expressed priorities, values
and goals:
"So, you think smoking helps you to maintain
your weight."
"It sounds like you are very devoted to your
family. How do you think your smoking is affecting
your children?"
Reinforce and support "change talk" and
"commitment" language:
"It's great that you are going to quit when
you get through this busy time at work."
Build and deepen commitment to change:
"There are effective treatments that will
ease the pain of quitting, including counseling and
many medication options."